What living in Spain has taught me so far

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Ok so what has living in Spain taught me... I've been here 5 months now and so far my Duolingo streak is 145 days of trying to learn Spanish, at least some basic conversational skills so I can go out and order food and drinks. At the moment its hard to practise everyday Spanish because of where I am living, however this is set to change in the coming weeks so I will be able to intergrate into Spanish culture a bit more which will be exciting. I would say I'm passionate about learning the language of where I am living, I think its important to be able to speak to local people in their language, and especially because being British, it is too easy to not bother and expect everyone else to speak English.

When I initally moved here the thing that I found different was the supermarket and all the food choices (I know this sounds obvious and kind of silly), for me it was the little things like cheese, I would love a block of cheddar but in Spain its either really expensive or hard to find so you have to get an alternative and its taken me a while to find good alternative products. As well as this would be bacon, another item I love in the UK but here its just different, not as salty or as tasty so I'm looking forward to going home just purely for that, haha. I've learnt how to become more flexible and adaptable to situations because of this, being thrown into the deep end of moving countries and having to figure these things out, cooking a recipe and it doesn't taste quite right because maybe you haven't found the correct brand of chocolate to use for cooking or the milk is sweeter than you are used to. The small things like this make the most difference for me because I enjoy cooking and I notice these little details in my food.

Another lesson living in Spain has taught me is to always check that where you are going is actually going to be open. The amount of times I have gone somewhere thinking it will be open and its shut because either its a Sunday or its the middle of the day so its siesta time is countless. Having to plan ahead I have found to be essential because all the shops and restaurants close from 2pm to 5pm for siesta and that is usually the time I would want to get a drink or tapas if I was out, and so many things are closed on a Sunday, such as supermarkets, which is another reason I have to plan my meals and food so I can do my food shop any other day but a Sunday. I would also say that in the UK I'm used to eating dinner around 6-7pm, however if I go out to the city in Spain a lot of resaturants don't start serving dinner until 8pm so that is another thing to take into consideration, plan eating times around when places close and re open.

I have hired a car twice since being here and I was pleasantly surprised with how easy it was driving on the other side of the road. I was really worried about this before I had done it for the first time, but it came naturally and I felt really comfortable driving on the right side of the road, although I would say following directions can be really confusing because there are lots of different side roads along the main highway and these aren't really highlighted on Google maps (or whatever maps you would use). In a similar vein would be turning off at a junction on the highway, sometimes there are two different junctions within 500 meters of each other labelled 'A' and 'B' so double checking the junction number is super helpful because I have definietly turned off the wrong one and added an extra 15 minutes to my journey because of it sealed. On the topic of cars and roads would be traffic. I really haven't come across much traffic whilst being here, even when driving into Murcia city. I don't know if thats because of the time of day but I feel like at home I am constantly sitting in traffic or if I leave the house around 3pm its rush hour and you can't get anywhere quickly, whereas in Spain even around 3-4pm I haven't been stuck in traffic. Its a treat honestly.

A Day In the Life – Cabin Crew Edition

Have you wondered what the role of cabin crew is really like. If you are curious about everything that goes on before boarding the aircraft to getting off on the other side, I am sharing what my day to day looked like working as crew, including details that go on behind the curtain that passengers never see, whether you're reading this for a potential job or you are just interested to know more I will do my best to give you a real insight into the life of a cabin crew.

At the Airport 

I would arrive to Heathrow Terminal 3 roughly 1hr 30 mins before my briefing time, which gave me plenty of time to get through the staff security and grab a coffee on the way to the crew report room. At Virgin the crew report area was at the far end of the terminal so it was always a trek to get there, if I was ever in a rush it was a nightmare getting through a busy terminal with my heels on and my luggage, hence why I would always give myself enough time. Once I got to the crew report room I signed in on my ipad to say I was here and then just chilled until the briefing time. In our briefings we always had to answer a safety related question and each month there would be a new topic to base these questions around. As an example when there was a really bad incident involving a Singapore airlines aircraft hitting turbulence and the crew were mid-meal service, for that month all our questions related to turbulence and how to secure the galley, should anything similar happen. So before the briefing I would normally go over the topic to refresh myself on anything, so I was ready for the pre flight questions. It was never as stressful as I first thought - I remember during my training when the instructors mentioned these pre flight briefing questions, we were all really nervous because if you don't correctly answer the question you are not allowed to fly, and you would need to go back to training for a few days to refresh your knowledge. Hence the stress we would feel; however in the actual briefing the managers make everyone feel at ease and always remind us that we are a team onboard and if anything happens you are never left to sort it just on your own.

Once the briefing questions were out of the way the managers would discuss the flight, any special passengers travelling, any known issues with the aircraft, how they would like the services to run and they would go through our working positions, which would change every trip. Sometimes you can get lucky and get the same position if you like it and other crew don't want it, however most times I would be working a different position. I didn't always mind, although it can add more stress to your day because if you haven't worked that position in a while and forget certain things it can make it harder and less enjoyable. After this the pilots would join us in the briefing room and give us a quick overview of the weather and if we are expecting any turbulence along the route, so that we can adjust services if necessary. Its also the first time you will meet the pilots for this trip. As most trips you will fly with new people it is important that everyone can trust each other. This is a huge part of the job and one reason why recruitment look for a certain type of person. You need to build trust with people you haven't met before in a few hours.

On Board   

 Once we are onboard the aircraft we go to our assisgned position. For me my favourite place to work was door 3 on the left side. A lot of crew don't like this position because during boarding I have to remain standing at the door. (if you look at an image of an A350 for example I would be standing at the 3rd door down from the flight deck). This door is never opened unless in an emergency, but for safety reasons I have to be standing there for boarding and disembarking. 

At my postion I get to my jumpseat and check all my emergency equipment is working and then see if any other crew needs help. Before passengers board I would go to the back galley and help with pre flight set up. Once we get the call that passengers have started boarding I will go to my door and stand there, welcoming them onboard.

Doors to armed and cross checked

This is the call we hear to know boarding is finished and we are ready to pushback from stand. We will ensure our door is activated so incase of emergency the slide will deploy when the door is opened. After this we will deliver the safety demo and walk through the cabin checking seatbelts, tray tables, window blinds are open etc...

I call my manager to let them know that my area is secured and then go to my seat by the door and secure myself for takeoff. At Virgin specifically the way we are notified of us turning onto the runway is by a double ding sound, this lets us know to sit in the semi brace position. At this time I usual think about my emergency commands and look at the door to make sure I know where my hands are going in an emergency. 

During Flight

After 10,000ft we can usually get up and start preparing for service, so I would go to the back galley which services economy and get the trolleys ready. The service is done in stages usually a drinks bar first followed by main meal and then a pre landing meal with drinks. At Virgin we did drinks throughout the flight as well as a snacks container in the galley for passengers. Once the main meal service was completed in all cabins the manager would start the breaks. For a long flight such as an LA the longest break I had was roughly 3hr 30 mins which was lovely. The breaks were normally split in 2 so half the crew on 1st break and the other half on 2nd break. My favourite break was probably 1st break because I didn't have to wake up and jump stright into a meal service (the pre landing meal was serviced right after 2nd break). Nothing is worse than waking up and having to serve 80 or so passengers asking if they want tea or coffee and they say 'yes'. For our breaks we would go to crew rest which on different aircrafts looks different. On the A350 it is located in the back galley in the overhead lockers. So if you have not noticed before the last few rows in economy won't have overhead lockers in the middle seats, this is because the crew sleep above so there is no bag storage. On the A350 the crew rest is big enough for 6 people to sleep at the same time. I loved crew rest, the bunk is so cosy and with light turbulence was always my favourite.

On the A330-900 aircraft the crew rest compartent is in the hold, so we access it via a door in the maincabin and then go down a ladder, this crew rest is a lot smaller, it still holds 6 people but the space is a lot tighter. This crew rest is build into a cargo container, so imagine how one of those metal containers looks, that is what we are in. 

Pre landing checks

About 40 minutes from landing we will start to prepare for landing, for passengers they will have 20 minutes to use the washrooms and for us we will go through the cabin clearing any rubbish and opening any window blinds getting the cabin ready for landing. I would normally collect any rubbish and then go to the galley and help pack away any lose items, that was also my opportunity to have a snack or anything leftover passenger food that didn't get eaten. We did get provided meals which were different to the passenger meals, however sometimes I really wanted something from the tray so before landing I would go through all the untouched trays snacking on whatever. I would also grab a bottle of water to take off the aircraft with me and make myself a coffee to drink.

Once we heard the ding of the seatbelt signs all of us in the back galley would be so happy, because we would go through checking seatbelts again and then we would be able to sit down for landing. I always found this so tiring because by this point I have worked an 11 hour flight to LA with 3 hours rest and then I'm sitting by my door trying not to fall asleep, after being go go go for the majority of the flight to them sitting down it hits very quickly how tired you are. Sometimes if I was in the mood and not too tired I would make conversation with the passengers sitting opposite me, but most times I would look out the window of my door and count down until we land to keep myself busy. This was the longest part of the flight, waiting to land...and then if for whatever reason we go around it was even longerrr

Doors to disarmed and cross checked

The best announcement to come over the PA honestly. I would get up and disengage my door so the slide won't open if the door opens as we have landed. All the passengers then get off the aircraft and we do the post flight checks to make sure no one has left anything onboard, and then once we are all gathered at the boarding door we all walk off the aircraft together, go through border control and find our transport to the hotel. Usually our bus is waiting outside but sometimes it gets held up in traffic so we end up sitting around waiting, which is so bad because we are so close to the hotel but yet so far. Once the bus turns up we all get on and mostly sit in silence to the hotel. I would listen to some music or a podcast and just zone out. The thing to remember is by this point the day has been so long. I get to the airport 1 hr 30 mins before briefing, then work an 11 hr flight and then add an extra few hours with getting to the hotel and delays, it works out to be about a 15 hour day. I'm tired just thinking about that.

But that is a rough guide to what a day in the life for me would look like, a lot more goes on behind the scenes than most people realise but when the day goes smoothly it is so enjoyable talking to the passengers finding out where they are going and what plans they have. The one thing I would say is this job is only as hard as you make it. Many people have told me this and it really is true. I believe its all about what you make it, if you want to make it difficult than it definietly can be. 

3 years, a different country and 1 solo flight later..

15th June 2026 was my first solo in Spain. It was almost exactly 3 years to the day when I did my very first solo at White Waltham on the 13th June 2023, although I don't have any photos because I wasn't expecting to fly solo that day, my instructor literally just said 'how would you feel if I got out and you just did one circuit on your own' and that was how it happened. However here, in Spain its more of a big deal so I do have photos to mark the occasion.

 

It was completely by chance that my Spanish solo fell around the same date as my original solo, I've never had more reason to trust the process than this. Looking back to how I ended up here I've constantly felt 'behind' with finishing my exams, and then getting my visa, and then actually moving out here, its been one thing after another. But I feel like I'm finally making progress and feel like I am right where I am meant to be. I didn't remember the date of my 1st solo so when I knew I was scheduled for my first dual to solo lesson I had a look through my photo memories, because luckily I did record my reaction afterwards when I was in the car, so I can remember the feeling and when it happened 😉

That's when I saw the date as the 13th June 2023, which was almost 3 years to the date, considering how slow the training process has been here, anything could have happened and it could have been any random day, but for me to be scheduled around the 13th June was truly part of the plan.

It may be surprising but I actually didn't feel all that excited after landing solo. It was more relief that I'm progressing and onto the next lesson. Not relief that I landed, haha. I know when I did my first solo in Maidenhead I was so shocked afterwards because I really wasn't expecting it, I knew I could do it, but I didn't see it coming, so once I let it sink in I felt so badass landing a plane on my own. For me now its hard to celebrate because well, 1. It wasn't my first time so its not as exciting and 2. I'm just moving on to the next lesson and the next thing. Sometimes I find it hard to acknowledge the little things and be in that moment, I'm always looking at the next thing which can take away from the here - and - now.

The actual solo flight was so quick, just one circuit that took me probably 10 minutes. My landing was a bit heavy but the plane wasn't damaged so that is a win:) Although I could definitely improve on my parking skills; I literally cannot forward park in a car, and it appears I cannot forward park a plane either. At least there is consistency somewhere. Its a shame I can't reverse park an aircraft because I reckon I'd do that so much better!

As a Leading Edge tradition after a first solo you get thrown into the swimming pool. Unfortunately for me I also got thrown in to the pool in my uniform, thankfully that was recorded and was actually pretty funny. I'm looking forward to my next few lessons with more solo flying so I can perfect the landings, as well as making progress through the syllabus, its nice to feel like I'm finally getting somewhere after being out here for 4 1/2 months. 

Moving to Spain for flight training

When I finished ground school the next thing was moving to Spain to start flying. The idea of this was so exciting, especially after 8 months of the hell that was ground school. However the actual principle of getting things sorted to move to Spain was more complicated and confusing. Initally I was told being in Spain was for only 6 months, however when I was applying for my visa I needed to make sure I got a 1 year student visa. As it transpires, it is now a minimum of a year in Spain with some people being here longer than that. Anyway, once I had got over the thought of being in Spain for a year I had to figure out how to pack in two suitcases for a year. That was hard enough considering the weight limit for each bag was 23kg

The visa process was confusing and I had problems with some paperwork so it might I was delayed by a month coming out here. Trying to get a Spanish visa is so complicated and expensive. The school do refund you for the cost but initally you have to pay. It took me about two months from starting the process to getting the visa and on top of that all the documents need to be translated into Spanish through a legal translation service, so its not like you can just google translate it! A long process that I got so frustrated with because it was harder than it needed to be. The next issue I had was with my car, I had been planning on driving down here which would have taken a few days and about £600 one way. Having a car here would be very beneifical since we are in the middle of nowhere, but I was worried about breaking down during the drive and the hassle and stress that would have been. Plus the logistics of car insurance, breakdown cover and spanish laws around foreign cars, I am glad I didn't drive my car down here now only because it would have cost so much and then of course petrol whilst I'm here driving most days, I also would have had to change car insurance since the company I am with in the UK wouldn't cover me for longer than 90 days in the EU. Quite honestly I couldn't be bothered with the hassle of all of this, just to have a car here, and I am lucky to know a few people with cars which makes it easier to go out. Its worth mentioning that Leading Edge do provide transport from the accomodation to the airport and they also organise supermarket trips as well as day trips, so even if you don't know anyone with a car you are not completely stuck, you are just on someone else's schedule for any trips or days out.

What are some things that surprised me moving here?

Where we are based in south Spain there is no food delivery service to our accomodation resort, public transport is basically nonexistant, you would have to go to the nearest town to get a bus but its getting to that town that is the issue. The general remoteness of where the accomodation is shocked me when I moved here.

The prices of food and drink here are cheaper than in the UK. For a comparison I'm used to paying £10 for an average bottle of wine, whereas I can pay £5 for a really nice bottle of wine in Spain, equally a cocktail in the UK would be £12, in Spain its about £8 in a restaurant. The food and drink culture here is really nice, people are out late and the atmosphere is lovely. It goes without saying that Spanish do food really well and I have definitely enjoyed my share of tapas the last few months.

The fair weather base 

This phrase has been thrown around so much and I thought that Spain would be a fair weather base, compared to the UK the weather here is a lot more stable, however the weather cancellations are plentiful. Sometimes you will look outside and it will be another hot day, then you go to the airport for a flight and everyone is being cancelled because its too windy, or the weather further North is just cloud, or its raining (very occasionally but still..), or my new favourite reason flights can get cancelled is because its too hot. So basically there will always be a reason for why flights are being cancelled, regardless of where you choose to do your flight training. A more specific Leading Edge reason flights get cancelled is because of maintenance issues and planes not working but then not getting fixed for a while. This is a work in progress, as we have been told they are improving on this front, however it is still something to bare in mind.

What I have been doing to stay busy here

I have averaged about 3 flights per month, it doesn't take much maths to work out that I have A LOT of down time here, hence this website. Some other things I have been doing to keep busy include: -cooking/baking, -reading, -playing keyboard, -learning Spanish, and I started running which means I have entered a new level of boredom.

The hardest thing for me during this period has 100% been having so much free time. Going from ground school and never having a day off to the other extreme has been difficult, I anyway don't like sitting around 'wasting my day' so coming here and being so isolated meant I had to come up with things to do or ways to kill time. I've become ok with the idea of doing nothing in a day and just lounging around, because truthfully there is nothing to do here so its hard to find a reason to leave my apartment. Off the back of this point I have found it really important to still keep a routine of sorts, so even if I don't get out of bed for a while at least waking up around the same time everyday has been good, sticking to a dinner time is another example of this. I really like a routine, even if that looks like getting into bed at the same time. Having some sort of structure in my day where I have no plan has been a lifesaver, mainly because when I am scheduled for a flight it means I will at least sleep well the night before as a minimum. 

Another thing I am making a conscious effort with is spending time with friends, such as going for a coffee or a long walk and chatting about whatever, mainly losing track of time which is nice to do out here. I purchased a keyboard from Facebook marketplace so I have been playing a few pieces on my keyboard which makes me feel a bit creative, I have been learning to enjoy playing again so this is a nice way to do it. I'll try and go for a run a couple times a week in the morning because it gets so hot by midday. I don't really enjoy running but its nice to just go out and listen to my music at the least. I'm using my time to form better friendships that are more meaningful, as well as learning Spanish on Duolingo (my streak is 122 days which I'm very proud of:)), and also getting more adventurous with my cooking which has been fun.      

 

My honest review : Ground school

I started ground school in February 2025. I didn't really know what to expect going into it and to be honest I'm glad I didn't know too much because I think it would have stopped me before I started. If you want to read about how I rated each subject click here to go to my ground school reviews. In this post I wanted to talk about my honest experience through the whole 6 months and the things I struggled with, outside of the obvious learning.

During the first couple of months I was finding my feet with a revision schedule as well as trying to stay on top of the work. Understanding the content was a bonus at this point because there was so much to cover in such little time, it was information overload for me. I felt really overwhelmed with how to revise and creating a schedule and during the start of ground school I wasted a lot of time trying to figure these things out. In hindsight I should have spent less time worrying about a revision schedule and more time going over the lessons we had already done. When I first started the course I went to the lessons expecting to be taught the content and to walk out of the classroom feeling like I understood what was just covered, however this was very far from how I really felt. I left the lessons feeling like I knew nothing and I wasn't quite sure what had just been covered in those 2 hours. After a long time of feeling like this I had to shift my mindset around it because it wasn't doing me any favours. I started to think that instead of going to the lessons expecting to be taught the subject, I was going to these lessons to get an overview of the topics and then at home is where I would do the 'learning' and try my best to understand the content and to learn how to answer questions around that topic.

I think this was one of the major learning curves for me during ground school. It was nothing like being at school where teachers ensure you have understood the topic before moving on, because in a 6 month ground school course there just isn't the time for that. In my case I didn't understand a lot of what was going on in the classroom and so I really had to spend every hour at home going over things. Another reason why I said that I shouldn't have spent so long on a revision schedule. Mainly because I wasn't revising at home! I was learning and going over everything from the day I just had. All my revision happened once we had finished the whole subject and we were preparing for end of module exams, thats when I had the time to revise, I couldn't revise alongside learning because it took me longer to understand.

Its worth noting that everyone has a different experience during ground school and I am only writing about mine. Some people in my class found things easier or picked things up quicker. This was not the case for me and personally I found it most effective to work alone for the most part. Something I had a really hard time with was comparing myself. Its something that I still actively have to remind myself not to do because its not helpful in the slightest. However this was really hard to not do during ground school. I was sitting around some really intelligent people who picked things up so much quicker than I did, and so I naturally felt less capable. Ultimately the thing I had to remember was that we were all at different starting points and so I can't compare myself to someone who for example, took A level physics and can understand principles of flight, purely because the prior knowledge is already there.

For me I am not the most academic person, my A level subjects were mostly essay based because I don't like maths and calculations, and still I find myself here. Sometimes it makes me laugh to think that I'm going into this career that has a reputation for physics and maths 🙂 Let me be the first to tell you that at GCSE I got a 5 in maths which is a grade C. I am by no means intelligent when it comes to maths or physics, but what I would say is you need to know what you are getting yourself into (just a little bit), take a pilot maths and physics test online to see how well you do as an idea. Equally as long as you can put the time into it you will most definitely come out the other side having passed all the exams. I was going into this knowing it would take me longer to understand and I would need to work harder than others to get a similar result. If you want it badly enough you will work for it at the end of the day.

My social life during ground school was pretty non existent. On a Friday night a lot of people would go out and I was invited many times but I knew if I would go out that was a night of revision I was missing out on, and I just couldn't afford to do that. You will probably hear people saying that they take a night or two off revising every week to chill and reset. I didn't have such luxury as I was already behind on work from being slow to understand. Looking back now it probably would have done me some good to take a night off once a week to reset, and to hit it hard the following day, but in the moment I felt really guilty if I took time off from studying. I know other people who shared this feeling; when you are not studying, revising or doing practise questions you feel really guilty because that is what you should be doing. Until all your exams are passed you don't feel like you can fully relax.

I am so glad to have completed ground school and definitely do not want to go back to that time. I have never felt more out of my depth and overwhelmed, and sometimes I truly don't know how I got through it, I'm just thankful I did. The last thing I would say is make sure you have your people around you, outside of ground school and the friends you will make during this time, its so important to have 'home' friends, I couldn't have done it without my friends and family and their support.